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Unpopular opinion
SapphicSari:
--- Quote from: SnowCirrus on September 29, 2017, 06:02:27 am ---Sorry for the double post, but this just occurred to me.
I really hate the Touma/Haruka pairing. It just doesn't even seem right. They're two polar opposites in personality. I know that Haruka is 17, but she behaves too young and naive. :-/
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I hate it too! It doesn't make any sense to me...like I get the opposites attract thing, but it just doesn't appeal to me, especially since Touma came across as kind of a jerk in iM@S 2 & the anime...if you need an opposites attract ship for Haruka, then why not ship her with the cool, calm Chihaya? I never really understood Hokuto/Makoto or Shouta/Yayoi either. The characters have nothing in common, plus Hokuto is 20...I'd say 3 years is a bit much...this could just be my preference for some of the girlxgirl ships in iM@S, but those three make no sense!
Nagi:
--- Quote from: SapphicSari on September 29, 2017, 08:32:02 pm ---I'd say 3 years is a bit much...
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You gotta be kidding me... a 3 years age gap, too much for a relationship? LMFAO! Not trying to be mean, but that’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve read. I’d say a big percentage of relationships (especially on seniors) have that age gap or even bigger. Ffs, there’s even a lot of couples today who have 20 and even 30 years of difference! How can you say a 3 year gap is too much compared to that?
SapphicSari:
--- Quote from: Nagi on October 02, 2017, 02:08:42 pm ---You gotta be kidding me... a 3 years age gap, too much for a relationship? LMFAO! Not trying to be mean, but that’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve read. I’d say a big percentage of relationships (especially on seniors) have that age gap or even bigger. Ffs, there’s even a lot of couples today who have 20 and even 30 years of difference! How can you say a 3 year gap is too much compared to that?
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What I mean is, 20 is legally an adult in Japan. There is no way a 20-year-old and a 17-year-old can have a healthy relationship. If it was 23 and 20, then maybe. I guess I worded it a bit weird...I have no problem with age gaps in relationships, but when one is an adult and the other is a kid, then in the words of a very wise hedgehog, that's no good.
Nagi:
--- Quote from: SapphicSari on October 02, 2017, 08:56:59 pm ---What I mean is, 20 is legally an adult in Japan. There is no way a 20-year-old and a 17-year-old can have a healthy relationship. If it was 23 and 20, then maybe. I guess I worded it a bit weird...I have no problem with age gaps in relationships, but when one is an adult and the other is a kid, then in the words of a very wise hedgehog, that's no good.
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Oh, now I understood you and you’re right, I honestly think relationships till both persons aren’t in their 20s won’t work well, even though I think that if a 17 y/o wants to have a relationship with a person that is starting his 20s then there’s no problem, as the minor is just one year a way of being an adult (when talking about non-Japanese relationships ofc). The problem would start if the person is already on their half 20s and the other one is still a minor... so maybe that’s why I don’t see Hokuto and Makoto’s relationship weird (even though I myself don’t like this pairing), as Hokuto just became an adult and Makoto is almost an adult too in my point of view. Also, Japan is changing the legal adult age to 18 in 2021 iirc???
Anyways, like I said before, sorry if I came out as mean, that wasn’t my intention! I interpreted your words like you thought age gaps were bad in any age and I didn’t have in consideration Japan’s legal age, so in my head Makoto was just one year away of being an adult.
SapphicSari:
--- Quote from: Nagi on October 02, 2017, 10:35:10 pm ---Oh, now I understood you and you’re right, I honestly think relationships till both persons aren’t in their 20s won’t work well, even though I think that if a 17 y/o wants to have a relationship with a person that is starting his 20s then there’s no problem, as the minor is just one year a way of being an adult (when talking about non-Japanese relationships ofc). The problem would start if the person is already on their half 20s and the other one is still a minor... so maybe that’s why I don’t see Hokuto and Makoto’s relationship weird (even though I myself don’t like this pairing), as Hokuto just became an adult and Makoto is almost an adult too in my point of view. Also, Japan is changing the legal adult age to 18 in 2021 iirc???
Anyways, like I said before, sorry if I came out as mean, that wasn’t my intention! I interpreted your words like you thought age gaps were bad in any age and I didn’t have in consideration Japan’s legal age, so in my head Makoto was just one year away of being an adult.
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Hey, no problem! I understand!
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