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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #30 on: April 17, 2012, 10:54:35 pm »
Oh, forgot to mention: My family didn't say much about the cake either. In fact, I shared some of it with them (and a couple of friends). ;)
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #31 on: April 17, 2012, 11:55:38 pm »
Oh, forgot to mention: My family didn't say much about the cake either. In fact, I shared some of it with them (and a couple of friends). ;)

Oh my God... you're one of those fans even 2ch'ers go o.0 at... Ok I seriously don't understand your family at all now, in the sense that I've never quite heard of a family like your's.

I mean most of the other instances of the cake/date/birthday/valentine/foreveralone pics were of guys who lived by themselves... Hmm... I guess if your parents thought of Yayoi as a cute pokemon you had collected instead of an actual romantic interest it would be more understandable... and oh my god are those CANDLES IN THAT PICTURE wtfbbq? o.o

Ok no... no... how could parents be this accepting? To someone unfamiliar with anime/manga/otaku that would look like some kind of movie serial killer shrine. You have hypnotized them or something right... maybe you're a staight-A student and star athlete (which lets them know you're doing ok?)... I don't know... I can't explain it... this is just so mysterious... nazo desu.

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #32 on: April 18, 2012, 01:05:08 am »
Oh my God... you're one of those fans even 2ch'ers go o.0 at... Ok I seriously don't understand your family at all now, in the sense that I've never quite heard of a family like your's.

I mean most of the other instances of the cake/date/birthday/valentine/foreveralone pics were of guys who lived by themselves... Hmm... I guess if your parents thought of Yayoi as a cute pokemon you had collected instead of an actual romantic interest it would be more understandable... and oh my god are those CANDLES IN THAT PICTURE wtfbbq? o.o

Ok no... no... how could parents be this accepting? To someone unfamiliar with anime/manga/otaku that would look like some kind of movie serial killer shrine. You have hypnotized them or something right... maybe you're a staight-A student and star athlete (which lets them know you're doing ok?)... I don't know... I can't explain it... this is just so mysterious... nazo desu.

Hmmm...no offense here but you should really reconsider what you just typed there....

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #33 on: April 18, 2012, 01:31:45 am »
Hmmm...no offense here but you should really reconsider what you just typed there....


Maybe there's been a miscommunication here. I'm a huge IM@S fan as well, else I wouldn't be here and helping with translating. I'm not putting anyone or anyone's tastes or acts down, I'm saying that others unfamiliar with this kind of media would often have an adverse reaction to it. Also, I've seen HUNDREDS of these kinds of shrines already, usually 2ch'ers will put out a photo collage whenever a lot of them are created at once, such as on a birthday, but I hadn't thought that any English speakers were doing this, let alone so brazenly and in mixed company.

I mean in some of those photos, fans will try to spoon-feed the character on the screen, or show filled out marriage forms they got from the county clerk that they'd filled out with those chars' name on it, also they will sometimes purchase a new bed/cradle or surrender their own bed so the setup is... "resting" or... um.. something like that... on top of the bed, kind of making it seem like the char were laying on bed in front of them.

Heck I like Yayoi a lot too and I think the setup AweOfShe had there is cute. But from my own experience I can't imagine people being so accomodating to something like this. Remember that recent post about someone screaming about "RAPE GAMES" when they went over to check one of the forumers here playing a hand-held IM@S game? That's the kind of reaction that would be expectable, that's all.
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #34 on: April 18, 2012, 01:58:03 am »
Maybe there's been a miscommunication here. I'm a huge IM@S fan as well, else I wouldn't be here and helping with translating. I'm not putting anyone or anyone's tastes or acts down, I'm saying that others unfamiliar with this kind of media would often have an adverse reaction to it. Also, I've seen HUNDREDS of these kinds of shrines already, usually 2ch'ers will put out a photo collage whenever a lot of them are created at once, such as on a birthday, but I hadn't thought that any English speakers were doing this, let alone so brazenly and in mixed company.

I mean in some of those photos, fans will try to spoon-feed the character on the screen, or show filled out marriage forms they got from the county clerk that they'd filled out with those chars' name on it, also they will sometimes purchase a new bed/cradle or surrender their own bed so the setup is... "resting" or... um.. something like that... on top of the bed, kind of making it seem like the char were laying on bed in front of them.

Heck I like Yayoi a lot too and I think the setup AweOfShe had there is cute. But from my own experience I can't imagine people being so accomodating to something like this. Remember that recent post about someone screaming about "RAPE GAMES" when they went over to check one of the forumers here playing a hand-held IM@S game? That's the kind of reaction that would be expectable, that's all.

I'm just finding your lack of faith in what you love...

Not that I want to disagree with you, those comments do bothering.
But don't let those blinded people back down your interests.

And if you know the people around you are blinded so much, just try to avoid them at all cost.
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #35 on: April 18, 2012, 02:07:59 am »
Well, I have nothing much to say on it. All I can really say is that I have really cool family and friends, for knowing that my hobbies don't get in the way of my priorities in life.  ;D
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #36 on: April 18, 2012, 03:05:43 am »
I'm paranoid.

I do get some flak from my sis and her father about not living up to the expectations of a stereotypical adolescent male; intelligent, diligent, respectful, and tough. They seem to view my iM@S interest (as well as my Anime and Manga interest) as something that conflicts with what they expect of me. My sis' mother is otherwise more tolerant about it, though she herself asks questions as to why I want such a game.

My friends, who all pretty much were raised on cartoon violence, hollywood explosions, and random mainstream pop music, would be intolerant and berate me or make fun of me for having such an interest.

Oh well.

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #37 on: April 18, 2012, 03:14:24 am »
...But from my own experience...

Calm down here. You're basing a situation through what you've seen which doesn't necessarily apply here.

Edit: Look, there are people there that will take a look at this and scream out and do whatever. But there's people out there that take a step back and just try and consider everything before they make a judgement. AweOfShe's friends and family seem to be like that. Plus, who says no to cake?
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #38 on: April 18, 2012, 03:27:43 am »
Oh my God... you're one of those fans even 2ch'ers go o.0 at... Ok I seriously don't understand your family at all now, in the sense that I've never quite heard of a family like your's.

I mean most of the other instances of the cake/date/birthday/valentine/foreveralone pics were of guys who lived by themselves... Hmm... I guess if your parents thought of Yayoi as a cute pokemon you had collected instead of an actual romantic interest it would be more understandable... and oh my god are those CANDLES IN THAT PICTURE wtfbbq? o.o

Ok no... no... how could parents be this accepting? To someone unfamiliar with anime/manga/otaku that would look like some kind of movie serial killer shrine. You have hypnotized them or something right... maybe you're a staight-A student and star athlete (which lets them know you're doing ok?)... I don't know... I can't explain it... this is just so mysterious... nazo desu.

My parents let me import my eroge.

I am a lady.

They are okay with this.

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #39 on: April 18, 2012, 03:31:10 am »
Calm down here.

Is someone not calm? I thought everything was calm?  :o

You're basing a situation through what you've seen which doesn't necessarily apply here.

Yes, that's true of anything though, and all we ever have to go on is what we've read and known and experienced so that's all we ever have from which to infer conclusions at any given moment.  Hence my caveat of "My own experience". If I somehow communicated that I had a firm conviction and belief in such conclusions then that was a miscommunication, I did not and do not presume to express the idea that this is absolutely how a vast majority of people should or could react.


Edit: Look, there are people there that will take a look at this and scream out and do whatever. But there's people out there that take a step back and just try and consider everything before they make a judgement. AweOfShe's friends and family seem to be like that. Plus, who says no to cake?

Yes, it is surprising, but in a good way, that there are people who will have an open-mind towards something unfamiliar in the way IM@S is. I get the feeling that AweOfShe is loaded, and has tons of IM@S loot, and an open-minded family and friends, and also cake...  :)

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #40 on: April 18, 2012, 03:38:09 am »
Ah, well then...good day we're having, huh?

It's probably because I come from a place where anime and manga is tolerated anyway.
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #41 on: April 18, 2012, 03:45:52 am »
I'm not rich or anything. I just don't follow as many franchises as I used to, haha.
And I'm STILL catching up on the pre-2nd-Vision merchandise. I focused more on the games over the merchandise TBH. I'm pretty sure there's a lot of people here that have more loot than I do. XD

Also, I have the joy of playing Im@s with the nieces, as they fight over who is which idol. They mostly fight over who gets to be Mami. It's very cute and entertaining...  ;D
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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #42 on: April 18, 2012, 04:50:55 am »
lol what did you say to answer your mom's question?

Didn't say much... but still, its better than playing shooting games, which I'm really bad at.

In a sense, Idolmaster motivated me to learn some Japanese on my own.

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #43 on: April 18, 2012, 05:01:16 am »
I don't care about any of those aspects that people pay attention to when it comes to Japan.  Strike that, I feel sympathy for the tsunami victims and those ousted from their homes due to the nuclear incident.  That's natural though, but I try to pay little attention to the aimless finger pointing.  I grew tired of such finger pointing years ago... when I found it got people absolutely nowhere.  The people inciting are usually ignorant, the people accused are generally victimized due to misunderstanding... it doesn't facilitate the "unity" folks declare they want out of the world today.

Not "tolerance," that's an awful word to use for it.  You can only "tolerate" something for so long until... well... you don't anymore.  Best to just accept it and get on with your life.  If it isn't infringing on your own beliefs and values?  Who cares?  If it is... then care.  Just care appropriately... if that makes sense.

As for iDOLM@STER?

It's fiction.  The voice actresses, the music, the writers, the programmers, the producers (of a Producer) are real.  Great, but the universe is fiction and not grounded in reality whatsoever.  It may derive elements from reality (idols and the business), but at no point is it a direct correlation towards what is here in this world we live in.  I like it that way, where fiction is fiction and reality is reality.

I'm a foster provider for two teenage girls.  I started doing this before I had a substantial enjoyment of iM@S in general.  Ignore what is portrayed in fiction on TV about the foster care industry, this isn't one of those homes that attempts to just "stockpile" children to rake in money.  Most of the girls that have come here have some... at times... deep seeded issues.  It's a case-by-case basis.  At no point should that alter what I'm used to, seeing as how none of my interests or beliefs are inappropriate or dangerous.  They have professional therapy to address any issues they have, all the while they are taught societal expectations and responsibilities while under this roof.  If it works?  Groovy.  If it doesn't?  Most of the time they're sent to a place that can help them.  It's up to them if they want the help, it's also up to them if they want to succeed.

You'd be surprised how few opt to accept that help.

Anime, manga, this franchise... none of it dictates who I am in entirety.  I don't talk about my interests with someone that doesn't share them.  What's the point?  I have plenty of friends with no interest in any of those whatsoever.  They also don't talk about their interests they hold in which I personally have none.  That doesn't mean we can't relate on different things, it's good that way.  I don't care what folks think about any of my interests.  If they want to insult me because of it?  Then they'll be no friend of mine.  No need to keep negative influences around, might as well stick to the positive.

I make no bones about what I enjoy.  Nobody of importance has given me guff about it yet.  Most reasonable folks tend to think of insulting the harmless interests of another as a fruitless endeavor.

People like that are my kind of fellas.

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Re: Is anyone else scared of people finding out about your liking IM@S?
« Reply #44 on: April 18, 2012, 06:07:54 am »
My opinion on being an iDOLM@STER fan is similar to being a Brony (I'm not one, if you're wondering). The same sort of social stigma is there, but there is an amount of tolerance. My friends are somewhat tolerant of liking iDOLM@STER, albeit some like to poke a little fun at it, but it doesn't define ones personality.

I should really switch into humanities after what I just said...
 
On a different note, people who walk by me playing iDOLM@STER 2 in the student lounge (I bring my PS3/360 into the lounge on occasion) simply wonder what I was playing, then continue on with what they were doing.
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