I always had 3D Studio Max in my laptop, I opened it 2/3 times, and I never understanded how to make a model.
But 3D modelling is hard, but It's like any other program, you have to practice alot to get satisfied results.
But good luck in it, if you're able to do something really cool, post it here, I was always fascinated from the 3D modelling.
Also, have you tried to ask tips from the Polycount forum? I think that they can help you.